Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Limits on Human Happiness

There are certain biologically-determined features of human beings that function as limitations on human happiness, regardless of the system of government that is in place. I wish to list a few of these, sticking to limitations whose existence few would deny and for which there is substantial evidence, without getting into speculative evolutionary biology territory. These are things that are unlikely to be remedied by any system of government or intervention. The only change that might remedy these limitations is a biological one - for instance, a physical change from a human body and human brain to a different sort of cognitive architecture.

I am using the term "happiness" in a broad sense here, not merely in a hedonistic sense, so that it includes things like satisfaction of preferences as determined by the individual (which preferences must, of course, be partially biologically determined).

Parents exercise control over children, despite the mismatch between parental interests and the interests of the child. A child cannot control himself, yet no one else's interests match his own. His parents' interests are frequently extremely different from his own - even a stranger would be more likely to make decisions on the child's behalf that reflect the child's values, rather than the parents. Of course, an unrelated person is also much more likely to abuse or kill the child.

Inequality is ubiquitous, overdetermined, and harmful. Inequality is ineradicable, both in terms of initial endowment (which is determined by necessary genetic variability) and in terms of economic distribution, regardless of the system of distribution. Inequality, in and of itself, causes suffering, regardless of the absolute level of material prosperity of the population. (The murder rate, for instance, more closely tracks inequality than overall poverty.) Even given an initially equal distribution, inequality would be guaranteed by the human preference for comparative well-being, rather than absolute well-being.

Humans' interest in maximizing sex is limited by the suffering caused by violent sexual jealousy. Neither the interest in sex nor the jealousy is likely to change.

Predominant heterosexuality, combined with the fact that the two genders experience different (average) sex drives, ensures frustration. Again, neither of these is likely to change. Widespread polygyny is not a solution that ensures a reduction in overall suffering, even where it is freely chosen by all partners, as it necessarily imposes celibacy and suffering on a large number of men who are not party to the polygynous arrangement.

Exploitation will always be lucrative, and sociopaths and other "cheaters" will always be with us. Sociopathy, as an evolutionary beneficial strategy at low frequencies, occurs (with low frequencies) in all human populations. Given any set of rules, from the ultraminimal state to totalitarian communism, figuring out how to successfully deviate from the rules in a way that benefits the individual will always be a benefit.

And, of course, there's this.

These, along with widely recognized limitations on human happiness such as aging, mortality, limited resources, and the lack of inherent meaning in life, act to limit the realistic expectations for happiness in even the most just nation imaginable. There may be hope for posthumans, but there is no realistic hope for humans to live lives of unlimited happiness. In many ways, suffering is guaranteed.

Edit: Here's another one.

Shame is necessary for human development and social functioning, and necessarily unpleasant. The presence of shame is ineradicable, nor would it be desirable to eradicate it. Nevertheless, it causes intense suffering for many, with the exception of those with antisocial personality disorder.


  1. It somewhat related to sexual jealousy and gender-bound disparities in mojo, but I think a serious and largely constant source of human frustration and misery is unrequited love. For an exploration of how this phenomenon creates turmoil not merely in the minds of those rejected but also for the "rejectors," see the book, "Breaking Hearts: The Two Sides of Unrequited Love," which is co-authored by our pal Roy Baumeister.

  2. Chip, I hadn't thought of that. It's interesting because most of the other mismatches would respond to super-advanced genetic engineering or brain upload, but as long as we don't edit out the love response (and many people find love valuable for its own sake), this one will always be with us.

    Many of us don't experience any particular suffering from our love being unrequited (my personal cognitive package tends to get bored with that after about two days). But all of us, to the extent that we have empathy, must experience suffering occasioned by those who fall in love with us and whom we cannot love. I'd certainly rather be on the unrequited lover end rather than the rejector end, since the latter is so much more painful for me.

    An "unrequited love immunity" package such as mine might be widely available through genetic engineering or something, but many would refuse it, given the choice, because they in some way value love and even unrequited love. (Also, I think my package goes along with getting easily bored by things in general; it's hard to do focused edits on personality without widespread consequences, I suppose.) And, even though in some sense it's chosen by them, their suffering would continue to hurt the rest of us who must bear the burden of rejecting them.

    I will take a look at the Baumeister book.

  3. polygyny does not impose celibacy on anyone. legal polygyny is just another facet of nature, ordering groups, however small. do not assume any constant blend rate going from monogamy to legalising poly(anything).

    vast amounts of men are incapable of thinking of much more than the occasional lay, and sharing a girl, knowingly or unknowingly, between 2-10 other men over say, a year. the women get lots of sex, lots of resources, gifts, without having to cook men dinners, etc, maybe just her one man that she lives with but may ride 2 others.

    it's not so simple when people think monogamy gave the bottom of the masonic beehive/pyradmid sex.

    it didn't.

    if a man is an omega male, he's with who he's with. or alone. if he marries, it's more in line with who he is, usually a match. a woman like himself.

    the rare men that can think about serious polygyny, and are capable and willing to go to say, 2 wives, (legally or just another arrangement, but effectively and say verbally agreed upon), or more, is going to attract perhaps a diverse set of wives, but very probably them being taken now, is not really offsetting anything in the local or greater mating and dating market.

    humans haven't even come close to maximising our other Qs, eq, mq, bq after iq.

    we're still living in the stone ages when you really look around and think about it.

    do we want some males getting sex from other men's wives, their secretaries, etc, and professing monogamy, or, could we legally allow that since gay marriage is ok, and polyamory is advancing, what about polygyny, or polygamy/polyandry? really any combination of partners. the law doesn't care.

    what if that man that has wives offering themselves to him, can now nurture and keep that woman, and the other one, the secretary, and his 1st wife. it can work, well. it's not for everybody.

    the husband that had the cheating wife will find someone else, probably quickly.

    most of history is not monogamy; it's polygyny.


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