3. I've had four miscarriages, and I feel like my heart is breaking in my chest when I think about having another one.
4. My partner and I are both Tay-Sachs carriers, and the risks seem too great.
5. When you had a child you became so boring and self-involved that I shudder to imagine that happening to me.
6. I don't know how I could have a child and keep them safe from their grandpa, without moving away.
I would also note that it is NOT socially acceptable to inquire into someone's reasons for HAVING children (found that one out the hard way).
Socially speaking, this blog is very bad-mannered.
ReplyDeleteTrue - I think a different set of norms applies to blogs.
ReplyDelete> I would also note that it is NOT socially acceptable
ReplyDelete> to inquire into someone's reasons for HAVING children
That should not come as a surprise, because:
1) most people who have kids didn't really think
about the reasons
2) most of these reasons are stupid and/or selfish
So if you ask somebody about it there is a high
chance that they either have to admit that they
are dumb enough to not think about such a serious
matter beforehand or that they are selfish enough
to ignore the problems that they cause or risk by
having kids. Obviously bringing people into such
a situation is not the best way to make friends.
All the best,
rob