Are you pregnant and deciding between abortion, adoption, and raising the child? You have probably heard the arguments against abortion; here are five reasons why abortion is the right choice for everyone involved.
1. For Your Own Good
You will be happier and healthier if you abort.
- Even a normal pregnancy inevitably results in disfigurement, including stretch marks, scarring, loose stomach skin, and obesity.
- Carrying a pregnancy to term is much riskier than having an abortion. Death, injury, and life-threatening illness (such as gestational diabetes) are all more likely to occur with full-term pregnancy than with abortion. (Source: Centers for Disease Control)
- Incontinence is also a frequent result of pregnancy; one-third of American women experience pelvic floor disorder in their lifetimes, resulting in vaginal prolapse and urinary or anal incontinence.
- The risk of mental health problems after abortion is the same or less than that for a full-term pregnancy. (Source: American Psychological Association)
2. For the Good of the Father
Think of the child's other parent.
- The father has no choice whether to have a baby, like you have.
- All of a sudden, he will be financially and socially responsible for a child he didn't want or plan for.
- He may feel his life is ruined.
- Many fathers of unwanted children commit suicide.
- You have the power to prevent this. At some point, you cared for him enough to have sex with him; now show you really care by not drastically changing his life without his consent.
3. For the Good of the World
Your child will need food and energy, and will get it from a world that already doesn’t have enough to go around – for wildlife or people.
- About a billion people in the world are hungry.
- All over the world, habitats have been decimated and species threatened or destroyed because a growing human population demands food and energy.
- A child from a wealthy country like the United States will use vastly more resources in its lifetime than a child from a poor country.
- The birth of a child is, in many ways, an ecological disaster.
4. For the Good of Other Children
Giving a child up for adoption means there will be one less loving home for some other needy child.
- Even if you are able to find a loving home for your child, giving up a child for adoption deprives another child, somewhere out there, of that very loving home.
- Some child who would have found a great home will merely get an okay home.
- And some child who would have gotten an okay home will be left with none.
- This is particularly true for older or disabled children, who will not be able to compete with your newborn, presumably healthy infant.
5. For the Good of the Child
Life is NOT a precious gift.
- A child who is never born can never suffer pain, fear, or loneliness.
- A child who is never born can never experience death.
- By having a child, you ensure that it will suffer during its lifetime, and that it will die.
- A study published in the American Journal of Sociology found that 30% of children wish they'd never been born.
Carrying a pregnancy to term is NOT the morally right thing to do. Abortion is not only the less dangerous choice for the mother, it's the morally responsible choice for everyone.
If you think abortion is wrong, how about New Abortion?
Lest anyone downplay the seriousness of the physical aspects mentioned in the first section above, here is a quotation from a woman struggling with the physical consequences of pregnancy:
So I use to be hopeful. I use to think I could change my body back to semi-normal or at least into something I could accept. I know differently now. Now I know that with out surgery I will be miserable forever…. Ok maybe that’s a tad bit dramatic. What I know is that I’m currently about 40 lbs heavier than I was when I posted last. . . . I hate my body more than I ever have in my life. I don’t look at other women and think “oh she looks awful” for some reason I can totally see beauty in others but in myself? Not at all. Everyday is a challenge. As dramatic as it sounds I sometimes think about dying over it. I wouldn’t take my own life (I couldn’t do that to my children) but sometimes it seems like dying would be a nice way out… An easy way out. [Sic throughout. Emphasis mine.]
Well done, Sister Y. That's the best pro-abortion summation I've ever read. If only it could be printed up in leaflet form and placed in family planning clinics. Can't see it happening somehow...
ReplyDeleteOh, I have a leaflet form and I've been planning to start leaving it in public. I'll get it posted to Jim's pamphlet site pretty soon.
ReplyDelete"At some point, you cared for him enough to have sex with him."
ReplyDeleteWell, it's called horniness. Not much of a conscious decision.
Maybe we should camp out in front of Planned Parenthood clinics and give these pamphlets out to balance out the fundies a bit? Of course, the risk of getting murdered by them would be pretty high.
ReplyDeleteAlso, I hadn't heard about the guy who walked into the lions' den because his GF got pregnant. Holy fucking shit. Not that that's not an appropriate reaction to the news.
ReplyDeleteLuckily I'm okay with getting murdered for a good cause. That's the power of being suicidal!
ReplyDeleteI'm thinking just outside subway stations. I'd need to research the venue to make sure I could sue for damages if I got arrested.
I think it's not totally fair to just assume that the father wouldn't want the child. That is surely not the case for every baby whose mother considers abortion.
ReplyDeleteAll the best,
rob
rob, good point - I wonder what the statistics are on paternal feeling at the time of unplanned pregnancy?
ReplyDeleteA nice blending of philanthropic and self-interested concerns. Your pamphlet is up and running.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately I have no idea where to find data about the feelings of those fathers, but it seems safe to assume that they can swing both ways.
ReplyDeleteOn the other hand there are certainly also fathers who are unhappy with even a planned pregnancy, esp. if it was planned by the mother alone.
To combine these two points, I recently read a question in a forum where a woman asked about the best way to trick her boyfriend into unknowingly impregnating her. She assured the readers that he would doubtless by happy and that he was just afraid to make the conscious decision. At least most people told here that this would not be a good idea.
I was then even more shocked to find out that there are people who even dare to suggest such tricks on tv.
All the best,
rob
When will the Altruistic Reasons to Commit Suicide pamphlet be up? (JK)
ReplyDeleteOff topic: Suicide Coaster.
sorry, you've got some pretty fucked values....
ReplyDeleteHealth, happiness, prevention of suffering, fairness . . . yeah, pretty repellent values!
ReplyDeleteA study published in the American Journal of Sociology found that 30% of children wish they'd never been born.----
ReplyDeleteYou can turn that statistic around and say that over two thirds of children wished they were born--how terrible it would be to not give them a chance....
I'm not for outlawing abortion, I do think it should be a last case option once the other options are discussed and you seem to be presenting it as the best option.
It's the most humane option. If you imagine that 70% of people have good, worthwhile lives (I don't), still you must admit that none of them suffers from being ejaculated into a sock rather than born. That 30% - they suffer, so that the other folks can enjoy their cheeseburgers.
ReplyDeleteallowing suicide is a whole other debate-that does call into the autonomy of an individual to choose their own fate.
ReplyDeleteanyways, I remember when I dared post at feministe I was called a mansplainer....
On that note, how can you A) judge wether other people have worthwhile lives B)say that because some suffer, others should die....
A) Whether someone's life is worthwhile (whether in the sense of "worth starting" or "worth continuing") is subjective, but that does not mean they can just pull some judgment out of their ass. People's judgments suck. There are many objectively measurable forces that push them toward the "life is great" end of the spectrum, away from how they actually experience it. One can play the subjectivity card and refuse to reveal the process of life evaluation by which one came to one's conclusion, but one can't expect others to respect that as an actual data point from which to extrapolate to future lives. A starving, parasite-ridden kid in Africa may furiously deny that their life is not worthwhile; would this judgment make it more appealing to you to live that life?
ReplyDeleteB) It is not about others having to die but about others not having to be born. "Those who are never born" do not experience the bad parts of life and have no need for the good parts of life.